River of No Return

Success rarely comes more spectacularly than it did to Tennessee Ernie Ford in the 1950s. After breaking into television on "I Love Lucy" in 1954, Ford's recording of "Sixteen Tons" in 1955 became the fastest-selling single in the history of the recording business. Ford was an overnight major star. But there was a cost. Now, in his book "River of No Return," Ford's son Jeffrey Buckner Ford lets us inside the family to see the fame, wealth and success, but also the other side of the coin. Click on this link to listen.

 




 



Pauly Shore born to make people laugh-Published: 4/11/2008 12:06 AM
By Deborah L.K Pauly

"The Weasel" Shore's persona, wacky sense of humor and penchant for California slang and dude speak all make his comedy unique.

Best known for his early-'90s stint on MTV and for the series of film comedies that followed, Shore has been around comedy his entire life. His mom owns both the San Diego and Hollywood locations of The Comedy Store. His dad, also a comedian, is a Chicago native who opened for Elvis Presley in Las Vegas.

We caught up with Pauly to find out more about his upcoming show at The Improv in Schaumburg, and to see what he's been up to.

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Whom exactly is the nanny taking care of?
More than one celebrity has fallen for the children's keeper

By PATRICIA TALORICO, The News Journal
Suzanne Hansen's memoir pulled back the curtain on the lives of celebrity nannies.

Nanny, nanny, nanny.

What does the nanny know?

Roger Clemens' former nanny played an interesting role in Wednesday's congressional hearing over whether the baseball star used performance-enhancing drugs.

Did Clemens' chief accuser and former personal trainer really see the famed pitcher's nanny in a bathing suit during a party at the home of admitted 'roid rager Jose Canseco?

Did Clemens try to get the babysitter to change her story?

Who knows? But if she kept a real-life Nanny Diary, it could make for some juicy reading.

Modern-day Mary Poppinses caring for the children of celebrities are privy to the secret lives of the rich and famous and, occasionally, they even play a starring role.

In recent years, celebrity nannies have turned cuddling with the kids into canoodling with the parents.

Sienna Miller reportedly ended her engagement with Jude Law after the actor admitted he had an affair with his nanny, Daisy Wright, who cared for one of his three children.

"I just want to say I am deeply ashamed and upset that I've hurt Sienna and the people most close to us," said Law in a 2005 statement.

Wright shared a detailed account of her trysts with Law -- which apparently occured while he was filming the movie "All the King's Men" -- with the British newspaper the Sunday Mirror.

Ryan Shawhughes, who was the nanny of the two children of Ethan Hawke, when he was married to now ex-wife Uma Thurman, is now pregnant with his child, according to a Jan. 30 People magazine article.

Comedian Robin Williams married his son Zach's nanny Marsha Garces Williams.

Williams told GQ magazine, "I was separated from my wife for a pretty long time before we became anywhere near involved."

The fictional 2003 bad-boss exposé "The Nanny Diaries" spent weeks on The New York Times best-seller list. And two years ago, Suzanne Hansen, a former live-in nanny for Hollywood agent Michael Ovitz, actress Debra Winger and celebrity couple Danny DeVito and Rhea Perlman, penned the memoir "You'll Never Nanny in This Town Again: The True Adventures of a Hollywood Nanny" (Random House, 2006) that pulled back the curtain on the life of celebrity nannies.

Almost all nannies now sign non-disclosure documents, which doesn't allow them to reveal details of their employers lives. Hansen did not have to sign one when she was a professional nanny.

She says nannies have a front row seat to celebrities lives whether they want to see it or not.

"They are privy to everything. They see affairs going on that they can't tell the other spouse. They see drug use and the fighting," says the author, who now lives in Portland, Oregon, with her husband and two children.

"A lot of times the mother will confine in the nanny as a therapist. The relationship gets kind of blurred. You become their confident, which you don't want to do. You don't want to say 'I don't want to hear this' because she's your boss."

Hansen isn't surprised that some celebrities, such as Law, have affairs with their nannies.

"He can't really go out and date," she says. "I think what happens it there are such fake people around all the time.
Hollywood isn't so grounded. You get a nanny from the Midwest or someplace, and she just seems so warm and real."

Hansen says she now sees that celebrities tend to look for more "seasoned" nannies, that is, babysitters who more resemble Mrs. Doubtfire than a young Julia Andrews.

"When I was nannying, I would go to Gymboree and I would hear mothers say 'the secretaries in my husband's office all have to pass the ugly test.' They're all just so afraid of losing their husbands."


 



 




 


MARY JO SEETHES OVER AMY TAPE

 January 8, 2008 -- AMY Fisher's hawking of her sex tape is making Mary Jo Buttafuoco sick. "She's no Jenna Jameson, she's just a porn  star [out] to make money. She tried to kill somebody, and now you're  making money off it," the ex-wife of Joey Buttafuoco fumed to Steve Grillo  on hardrockradiolive.com. Mary Jo, 52, who still has Amy's bullet lodged  in her head, said that as she watched Fisher on TV promoting the hard-core video she made with husband Lou Bellera, "I was a little surprised at her  flippant attitude." Meanwhile, the producers of the Amy tape announced they were putting out a tape starring Joey and his new wife next month. Mary Jo's keeping her clothes on - she said she's signed with a literary agent  and will use a ghostwriter to help pen a memoir about the infamous Long Island Lolita case. Martin Literary Management represents her.



 

 

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Volz case attracts attention of Nashville crime writer http://cmsimg.tennessean.com/apps/pbcsi.dll/bilde?Site=DN&Date=20080106&Category=FEATURES07&ArtNo=801060382&Ref=AR&maxw=220
Nashville author Michael Glasgow was drawn to the story of Eric Volz in part because of the complicated historical ties between the U.S. and Nicaragua. MANDY LUNN/THE TENNESSEAN


Published: Sunday, 01/06/08

Earlier this year, Nashville author Michael Glasgow co-authored An Unfinished Canvas, a nonfiction account of the Perry March saga. Now Glasgow has turned his attention to another Nashville narrative: that of 28-year-old Nashville native Eric Volz, who until recently was serving a 30-year sentence in a Nicaraguan prison for the alleged murder of his ex-girlfriend, 25-year-old Doris Jimenez. Volz was freed in December after an appeals court in the Central American nation overturned his conviction. All along, his supporters had maintained his innocence and described him as a cultural scapegoat in a region where anti-American sentiment runs high. Glasgow's forthcoming book, The Bridge, which untangles the tragedy's various strands, is due out from Thomas Nelson in 2008.

What attracted you to the Eric Volz story?

The fact that he was from Nashville. Many people don't realize this, but there's been a connection between Nashville and Nicaragua that's at the core of the American/Nicaraguan relationship. So really, the story started in 1855, and it's a story that's been in the making for about 150 years because of that history, (which) came back to crystallize the movement against Volz. It was the distinctions and              misunderstandings and the political histories between the two cultures that, I think, in large part convicted him.

Ironically, Volz had headed El Puente (The Bridge), a Nicaraguan magazine whose aim was the fostering of intercultural understanding. That's where the book's title comes from.

Did the fact that Volz's life was in immediate danger in prison put pressure on your writing process?

Obviously, the urgency of the situation was always in my mind. And of course, (as a writer) the thing you hope to do would be to affect, in a positive way, the outcome of the matter.

How difficult has it been to maintain objectivity about a case like this?

Everybody initially feels that Volz was railroaded, and of course we'll just have to let readers decide at the end of the book. Churchill said, "Nothing is more abhorrent to democracy than to imprison a person because he is unpopular. This is really the test of civilization."

Does the sometimes grisly aspect of your work keep you up at night?

Well, maybe it's the detachment of the writer, but I'm not disturbed. I do, however, wake up in the middle of the night mainly to think of things I should put in the book.

—INTERVIEW BY JOEL RICE, FOR THE TENNESSEAN
Published: Sunday, 01/06/08




 


January 6, 2008

Killing in Nicaragua Makes Spectacle of the Courts

By MARC LACEY

 

MANAGUA, Nicaragua — Somebody raped and strangled Doris Jiménez in her tiny clothing boutique 14 months ago. Ever since, Nicaragua’s justice system has found itself on trial.

The case has become both an international dispute and a political spectacle. And it has proved not who killed Ms. Jiménez, but that justice here is a nebulous concept, subjective to the point of abstraction.

Nicaragua’s president has weighed in on the Jiménez case, as has the United States State Department. Nicaragua’s Supreme Court has become enmeshed in it. And a judge who ruled on it is watching his back out of fear that he might be killed, too.

Last February, a Nicaraguan judge convicted Eric Volz, an American who is now 28, of killing Ms. Jiménez, 25, a Nicaraguan whom he had dated on and off. Mr. Volz, a native of Nashville, who sold real estate and ran a magazine in Managua, the capital, insisted he had a solid alibi and bore no grudge against her. But after a three-day trial, the judge, Ivette Toruño, said she was convinced that he and another man were guilty.

Whether Mr. Volz really was the culprit, however, has never been clear. He presented evidence that he was in Managua on Nov. 21, 2006, when someone entered Ms. Jiménez’s boutique near Rivas, about 55 miles to the south, and strangled her. Friends and acquaintances backed up his account. So did cellphone records that traced his phone to the capital around the time Ms. Jiménez was believed to have been killed and computer records that showed he was communicating by instant message around that time.

None of that swayed the judge, or the community.

Although no physical evidence tied Mr. Volz to the crime, one witness did, a local surfer, Nelson López. Mr. López was initially arrested in the case but was later granted immunity for his testimony, pointing his finger at the American. And the local population clearly viewed Mr. Volz as the killer. When he was being transferred to the courthouse in Rivas during the trial, the police had to keep back angry residents who appeared ready to attack him.

Mr. Volz received a 30-year sentence and began serving it while his lawyer challenged the conviction. From his cell, Mr. Volz told whomever would listen that the courts had the wrong man. Back in the United States, his family and friends started a campaign to win his release, selling “Free Eric Volz” T-shirts, bracelets and bumper stickers for a legal defense fund and setting up a Web site (www.friendsofericvolz.com) to spread word of what they called an unjust conviction.

Then, on Dec. 17, an appeals court in Granada, a city southeast of Managua, ruled that Mr. Volz and his supporters were right.

Two members of a three-judge panel decided that he was probably not the killer and that local passions probably had prompted the conviction. They ordered him released. The third judge, Norman Miranda, a member of the ruling Sandinista Party, found deficiencies in the case that merited a retrial but did not order Mr. Volz freed.

All three judges agreed that the Nicaraguan co-defendant in the case, Julio Martín Chamorro, ought to remain in jail.

Roberto Rodríguez, the judge who wrote the decision in Mr. Volz’s favor, said in an interview late last month that he initially presumed Mr. Volz to be guilty. But after reviewing the record of the trial, he became convinced that the evidence indicated that the young American could not have been the killer, he said.

His ruling was not enough to get Mr. Volz out of jail right away. The trial judge, Ms. Toruño, delayed releasing him for days, raising excuse after excuse. Another judge, Mr. Miranda, temporarily lost Mr. Volz’s case file. The State Department called on Nicaragua to follow its own laws and release him.

Meanwhile, prosecutors appealed the release order and sought to keep Mr. Volz behind bars. But Mr. Volz was somehow released and left the country, which shocked Julio Centeno, Nicaragua’s chief prosecutor. “How he got out, I don’t know,” Mr. Centeno said in an interview on Dec. 27, four days after Mr. Volz left.

Rushed through the streets of Managua under high security, Mr. Volz entered the airport through a private entrance and hopped on a private plane. Government officials stamped his passport and ushered him out.

“We’re not celebrating,” Mr. Volz said Friday in a telephone interview. “They continue to persecute me.”

Mr. Rodríguez, the judge who ruled in Mr. Volz’s favor, said he knew that his ruling would be controversial. But even he was surprised by the uproar that followed.

Nicaraguans of all walks of life condemned the ruling, lashing out at Mr. Rodríguez and his colleague Alejandro Estrada Sequeira. In many Nicaraguans’ eyes, a rich American had been freed through his clout, and a poor Nicaraguan had been left behind to suffer.

“This killer had the money to pay the judges,” said Sylvia Sánchez, a friend of Ms. Jiménez.

President Daniel Ortega, who regularly criticizes Washington, weighed in, pointing out with scorn that the two judges who released the American convict had been appointed by parties who oppose his governing Sandinistas.

Mayra Sirias, coordinator of Nicaragua’s Network of Women Against Violence, called Mr. Volz’s acquittal “the product of a corrupt judicial system that let a killer and rapist go free.”

Mercedes Alvarado, the victim’s mother, told reporters that Mr. Rodríguez ought to be arrested and serve the rest of Mr. Volz’s term. Others called for him to be thrown in the ocean. Many questioned his patriotism because he carries dual Nicaraguan and United States citizenship.

“I’m going to fight for my integrity,” vowed Mr. Rodríguez, who nonetheless said he was afraid because of all the threats against him. “I want to be very clear: I couldn’t live with my conscience if I kept someone in prison for 30 years for something I don’t think he did.”

This case unlike any other then attracted the attention of the nation’s highest court. Ordering an investigation into the two judges who freed Mr. Volz, two Sandinista members of the Supreme Court said they intended to question everyone involved to find out whether any malfeasance had occurred.

Mr. Volz, now in the United States but still lying low because he fears for his life, condemned the inquiry into the judges who freed him.

“It’s a continuation of the same injustice,” he said.

Mr. Volz contends that a prominent Nicaraguan family with ties to the ruling party, whom he declined to name, is behind Ms. Jiménez’s killing. He portrays all the legal wrangling since his departure as part of a cover-up.

Those who are certain that Mr. Volz killed Ms. Jiménez and those equally insistent that he did not agree on one thing: the case has laid bare the deficiencies in Nicaraguan justice. Decisions are believed to be bought and sold. Politics infiltrates judges’ chambers. Confidence in the system is as low as it can be.

“Our justice system had a bad reputation before,” said Jaime Morales, the country’s vice president, “and this case didn’t help.”

See:  The Bridge by Michael Glasgow, Thomas Nelson Publishers, Spring, 2008


 


The Baltimore Sun--Intermarry and be Merry

By Arthur Blecher

It's hard to imagine a cozier holiday scene than the whole family gathered together to trim the tree. But for 2.5 million Americans in Jewish-Christian households, this is a scenario fraught with tension and feelings of betrayal.

As the rabbi of a congregation that is more than half interfaith couples, I have learned that the holiday season is an especially difficult time for people with multiple religions in their household. More often than not, the gentile partner grew up with Christmas cheer in the home, but the Jewish partner learned to view traditions such as Christmas carols and holiday wreaths as "un-Jewish."

Many Jews who are married to Christians feel tremendous guilt about simple rituals such as picking out the perfect spruce tree, because it recalls what may have been one of the most difficult decisions of their lives: marrying outside the faith. That's because American Jews have been fed a steady diet of fearful sermons about the imminent destruction of our ancient people - not through genocidal anti-Semitism, but through slow annihilation from assimilation and intermarriage.

It may sound silly, but many Jews in interfaith couples feel that sending out red-and-green cards to their neighbors and friends in December is a kind of betrayal. However thoroughly Americanized, the people I counsel can't quite forgive themselves for not living like a character out of Fiddler on the Roof.

When my congregants come to me with questions about presents under the tree and leaving cookies for Santa, I tell them that they should enjoy the Christmas spirit.

There's no reason to feel guilty about a little mistletoe. And more important, there's no reason to feel guilty about having married a non-Jew.

Fear of intermarriage rests on two great myths of American Judaism: that Judaism is disappearing and that intermarriage poses a grave threat to the continuing life of the religion.

These false notions, almost universally believed by American Jews and seemingly impervious to mounting contrary evidence, have long and impressive pedigrees.

In the century since prominent Rabbi Solomon Schechter's anti-assimilation warning that "traditional Judaism will not survive another generation in this country," the American Jewish population has grown from 1 million to approximately 6 million. Jewish summer camps, schools, charities and Web sites form a network of institutions that has no equal in Jewish history.

In recent years, the myth of the disappearing Jew can be traced in large measure to a single, well-publicized study recording 5.2 million Jews in America, down from 5.8 million. But many other counts disagree.

The American Jewish Yearbook, which has been keeping track of the number of Jews in America since 1902, reports the population is now 6.4 million. A recently released study from Brandeis University found as many as 7.5 million Jews in the United States.

Conventional wisdom mainly blames intermarriage for the mythical decline in the American Jewish population. Yet one-third of Jewish-gentile couples raise their children exclusively as Jews. Of course, almost all fully Jewish couples raise their children as Jews, but it's important to remember that Jewish couples produce, on average, 1.9 children - below the replacement rate. Even if every Jew married another Jew, there would be no population boom.

Meanwhile, two Jews who each marry non-Jews will collectively produce an average of more than four children. Even the pessimistic National Jewish Population Survey acknowledged that the vast majority of these kids grow up with either an exclusively Jewish identity or a dual Jewish-gentile identity.

The math of intermarriage should give rise to optimism, not overblown comparisons with the Holocaust.
Intermarriage is as old as the Jewish people. Moses married the daughter of a Midianite priest. Even the insular Jewish communities of Eastern Europe were not immune.

American Judaism must move forward from viewing intermarriage as a threat. Marrying the person whom you love, whatever his or her faith, is no betrayal. And celebrating this season of joy with that person is no transgression.

Rabbi Arthur Blecher of Beth Chai congregation in Washington is also a therapist and the author of "The New American Judaism: The Way Forward on Challenging Issues from Intermarriage to Jewish Identity." His e-mail is info@theunorthodoxrabbi.com.

Copyright © 2007, The Baltimore Sun


 


Lincoln writer wins national arts fellowship

By CINDY LANGE-KUBICK / Lincoln Journal Star

Wednesday, Dec 12, 2007 - 12:25:55 am CST

It’s been a good year — make that a great year — for Lincoln author Kelly Madigan Erlandson.

In September, McGraw-Hill published her first book “Getting Sober: A practical guide to making it through the first 30 days,” which quickly went into a second printing.

Her poem “Reliquary” was included in the just-released anthology “Best New Poets 2007.”

And in late November she received a phone call: The National Endowment for the Arts was awarding her a $25,000 literature fellowship.

One of 42 awarded nationwide.

“It was stunning to me at the time,” Madigan Erlandson said of her reaction to the call. “And it continues to be.”

The 45-year-old was judged on her submission, “One Hundred Seeds,” an essay that explores her cousin’s death at the hands of a drunk driver and Madigan Erlandson’s own experiences with alcohol and subsequent work as an addiction recovery counselor.

The creative writing fellowship “enable(s) recipients to set aside time for writing, research, travel, and general career advancement,” the NEA wrote on its Web site.

How will she spend the money?

She is working on several projects, including a piece of fiction, a collection of poetry, and essays on canoeing and kayaking Nebraska rivers, said the author.

She hasn’t made any “firm decisions” on which project will take priority but knows the cash will allow her to take an extended period of time away from her day job at the Independence Center to devote time to her writing.

“It’s breathing room,” she said.

Madigan Erlandson is one of two Nebraskans to receive the highly competitive award this year. James Reed of Omaha is the other.

The last time an individual Nebraskan won an NEA literature fellowship was in 2002 when an award went to Gothenburg native Ron Block.


 

Richard Perle is again propping up regime-toppling Mideast dissidents who lack credibility.

By Alan Weisman
November 28, 2007

ON A COLD MORNING last winter, I arrived at the home of Richard Perle outside Washington for a scheduled interview. I was about 10 minutes early, so I chose to shiver a bit on the front porch. Perle, the point man for the neoconservatives' drive for regime change throughout the Middle East, had agreed to spend time me with for a book I was writing about his life and times. Just then, the front door opened and out stepped Perle and a robust young man who was obviously in a hurry.

"Oh, Alan," Perle said with some surprise. "I'd like you to meet . . . " But I already knew who his guest was.

"Yes, sir," I said, extending my hand. "I recognize you from your photographs."

My, my, I thought. Mr. Perle is at it again.

The exiting guest was Farid Ghadry, an exiled Syrian dissident who, like Perle, believes it's past time to replace Syrian dictator Bashar Assad. Ghadry, who heads a Washington-based group called the Syrian Reform Party, hopes to be the man in charge one day in Damascus. When I met him, he had already been granted audiences with David Wurmser, Vice President Dick Cheney's top Middle East advisor and Perle protege, and with Cheney's daughter, Elizabeth, who headed the State Department's Iran-Syria desk from 2005 until last June. I asked Wurmser about Ghadry. Was he another Ahmad Chalabi, the checkered Iraqi exile whom the United States backed as a Saddam Hussein replacement in Iraq?

"He's not asking for money, and we're not advocating money for him," Wurmser told me. "As for him wanting power, sure, he probably has an agenda. But it doesn't matter. This is where you go back to the Soviet Union, because it's the same question that we always work with, from Lech Walesa to Vaclav Havel: 'Did they have an understanding of the malady and danger posed by the totalitarian regime in their country?' "

The scenario of the U.S. backing exiles to aid in "democratizing" Middle Eastern countries is so appealing to Perle, Wurmser and their like-minded friends that they continue to pursue it despite past failures. Perle, of course, was the most prominent and aggressive advocate of Chalabi, dubbed the "Jay Gatsby of Iraq" for his social life and financial scandals, as the leader of a new Iraq. That effort collapsed when the Iraqi people, finally given a chance to vote in January 2005, did not award Chalabi's party a single seat in the new parliament.

Perle insists that his man, who has a new job with the Baghdad government, was the victim of a smear campaign led by the State Department and the CIA. The Chalabi experience has not muted Perle's unabashed affection for dissidents. "I think the best way to bring about regime change," he told me, "is to help decent people who are powerless without outside help."

People such as 32-year-old Amir Abbas Fakhravar, an Iranian dissident now living in exile in the United States. In a 2006 Washington Post Op-Ed article, Perle promoted Fakhravar as a heroic and inspirational figure around whom oppressed Iranians could rally, if only he were given America's support. Fakhravar is president of the Iran Enterprise Institute, which takes its name and some of its financial support from the neoconservative American Enterprise Institute, of which Perle is a resident fellow. In the coming weeks, Fakhravar will be speaking at a conference in Palm Beach, Fla., on the subject of regime change in Tehran, addressing the Heritage Foundation in Washington and then heading to Rome to deliver a lecture on "Democracy in the Islamic World." Just recently, he was the honored guest at DePaul University's "Islamo-Fascism Awareness Week," where he was introduced as "the hero of our age."

His story, as he and his supporters tell it, could be a Hollywood script. Young, handsome, bold Iranian student leads the oppressed and downtrodden against the crushing tyranny of the mullahs, rising up, a la "Les Miserables." He stands atop the barricades during student protests in Iran in 1999 and is then imprisoned and tortured. He communicates with the West from Tehran's maximum-security Evin prison via a cellphone and escapes to freedom, with a shoot-to-kill order hanging over his head.

Unfortunately, Fakhravar's detractors, including some Iranian dissidents and exiles, insist that his story might as well be a Hollywood script. In a report last November in Mother Jones, Laura Rozen interviewed Iranian dissidents and journalists who cast doubt on Fakhravar's story. They claim, for example, that in their experience, political prisoners at Evin weren't allowed to use cellphones to communicate with the outside world. And, they say, he did not so much escape from prison, he simply went AWOL while on a kind of furlough that prisoners could sometimes arrange. As for other harrowing details, in reality he took a regular flight to Dubai (where he was met by Perle). Most important, Rozen's sources told her, Fakhravar was never a major figure in the student uprising of 1999.

Writing in Progressive magazine, Muhammad Sahimi, a chemical engineering professor at USC, lists Fakhravar among the exiles who have no credibility in Iran: "They are not even known there." Although Amnesty International lists Fakhravar among those tortured by the Tehran regime, it uses the word "reportedly" to describe his ordeal.

Perle insists that Fakhravar is being smeared by forces opposed to aggressive regime change. But the fundamental problem for Perle and like-minded others is that the men they are supporting lack the stature of their successful and illustrious predecessors, the Walesas and Havels. In the first place, Walesa and Havel did not operate in exile; they remained in their countries despite repeated imprisonment, government pressure and threats. There was never any question that they were recognized as the real thing -- opposition leaders -- by the throngs in the shipyards of Gdansk and St. Wenceslas Square. They may have had personal as well as altruistic ambitions and motives, but they were nothing if not authentic.

Which brings us back to America's Middle East wannabe heroes. Take Ghadry, an American-educated Arab with a passion for technology start-ups as well as saving Syria. Unfortunately for Perle, Ghadry is seen in many quarters as a front man for Israel. Not only is he a dues-paying member of the American Israeli Public Affairs Committee, the most powerful Israeli lobby in Washington, but a recent column on his website, titled "Why I Admire Israel," seems to play right into the hands of those who believe the Bush administration's obsession with regime change in the Middle East is really all about protecting Israel. Did Perle, the savviest of Washington power players, believe that Ghadry's tub-thumping for Tel Aviv would make him more popular in Syria?

"No," Perle replied. "I don't. But he's his own man. I don't always understand what he's doing and why he's doing it."

So, in his quest for idealistic dissidents to do in the Middle East what the Walesas and Havels achieved in Eastern Europe, Perle and his acolytes have tapped the discredited Ahmad Chalabi for Iraq, the suspect Amir Abbas Fakhravar for Iran and the allegiance-challenged Fahrid Ghadry for Syria. They're just not making heroes like they used to.

Alan Weisman is the author of the first biography of Richard Perle, "Prince of Darkness -- Richard Perle: The Kingdom, the Power, and the End of Empire in America."


 



 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Tale of two worlds: reporter and mom

Sharon O'Donnell

Through the news studio window, the New York City streets and skyline glistened in the morning sunlight as Cary resident Amanda Lamb sat in the guest chair on “The Today Show.” She was on the show several weeks ago to be interviewed about her first book, Smotherhood, a book of humorous and honest essays about motherhood.

Lamb was relaxed and personable, answering questions from anchor Ann Curry and discussing the struggles of working mothers. The Sept. 10 appearance garnered tremendous publicity for the book, sending sales numbers upward.

Afterward, “Smotherhood” was listed No. 4 in the parenting category on the Amazon hit rankings. Lamb, the mother of two young daughters, is currently balancing her job and parenting duties with book signings.

Lamb is well known in the Triangle area because she has been a reporter for WRAL-TV for the past 13 years, covering mostly hard news and crime. But not many people know that Lamb is also an author with two books coming out in the next year. Her other book is a true crime story called “Deadly Dose,” which is about the Eric Miller arsenic murder and is told from the perspective of a veteran homicide investigator whose crusade for truth finally led to an arrest. The book will be released in June.

I met Lamb over a decade ago when she first came to a meeting of the local writers group I had been a member of for several years. At the time, I had two young sons, and she was yet to have children, although she and her husband were contemplating the decision. I remember her saying she really enjoyed sleeping in past 11 a.m. on the weekends and how she guessed they wouldn’t be able to do that any longer if they had kids.

I looked at her and said point blank, “Amanda, with kids, there’s no way you’d sleep past 11. You’d be lucky to make it to 8.” Her smile faded when I said this, but I figured I’d better level with her about the realities of parenthood. This news must not have been too dissuading for her because several years later, Lamb and her husband had their first child.

She has now seen some of those realities of parenting up close and personal. Along the way, she started to write about these experiences and eventually became a regular blogger on dot-moms.com, a Web site featuring 40 women from around the world who blog about being a mom.

Lamb started writing longer pieces about parenting and submitted them to the members of the writers group. The theme of a lot of her essays was the juxtaposition of her two different worlds: one world filled with reporting from murder trials in a courtroom or from a Hurricane Katrina-ravaged Gulf coast, while her other world was consumed by potty training, setting up play dates, preschool volunteer responsibilities and Indian Princesses.

Our writers group members told her we thought there was definitely an audience for her essays. “Really?” Lamb asked. “You think so?” She began putting together the book, and her mother came up with the perfect name for it; the title “Smotherhood” says a lot in itself: Mothers love their children immensely, but sometimes, yes, to be candid, it does feel like we’re smothered by all the demands and expectations placed on us.

Soon Lamb had an agent, then a publisher, and then suddenly somehow, she found herself on “The Today Show.” When her publicist called her to tell her he’d booked her on the show, she admits she was overwhelmed. “That’s every author’s dream,” she said, “but believe it or not, I was a little nervous knowing the whole country, including my parents, would be watching.”

She said her mom and dad sent out hundreds of e-mails telling everyone to tune in and that they got a huge kick out of watching, particularly because they live in Pennsylvania and rarely get to see her on television. Lamb said her children, 7-year-old Mallory and 4-year-old Chloe, don’t know the difference between national and local TV so for them it was just another day at the office for Mommy. Then Lamb added, “Except for the fact that I was gone overnight in New York, which annoyed them to no end.”

Lamb’s honesty in “Smotherhood” surprises some people. Lamb said she says things out loud in the book that women think about but are afraid to say because women have been socialized not to say anything negative about motherhood. “It’s about those times,” Lamb explained, “when your kids are having meltdowns and you think about walking out the door, getting in your car and driving away, but you don’t of course.

“It’s about those times when they are driving you crazy and you do something that’s not politically correct — like let those balloons from the grocery store out the sunroof after your kids have hit them into your face while you’re driving one too many times.” Lamb said there is a constant supply of material to write about with young kids. And with a possible “Smotherhood 2” on the horizon, she’s glad she has an endless source of inspiration for parenting anecdotes. Even if it means she doesn’t get to sleep in past eleven on weekends.

 

Carnal Knowledge | Condoms: A look at their place in history
By Faye Flam
Inquirer Staff Writer

This summer, in what some may consider the end of civilized society, mainstream drugstores started stocking the 4Play vibrating ring - a battery-powered, next-generation, "pulsating" condom accessory. And to think that only a couple of years ago they hid regular old rubbers behind the pharmacy counter. "There is an overall demystification of the sex industry going on in the country," says Carol Carrozza, vice president of marketing for LifeStyles, the brand behind 4Play.Those who fear for our collective innocence needn't worry: Condoms have been out of the closet before.

Take the 17th century, when they were sold openly to men and women by tailors and taverns or through special shops, says Aine Collier, a University of Maryland professor and author of a book on prophylactics through the ages. Casanova "was passionate about condoms," she says, and would often entertain women by blowing the condoms up, which also tested for holes. She maintains that the 18th- A condom advertisement from the 1930s, reprinted from "The Humble Little Condom: A History."

century libertine was particularly diligent when having sex with nuns, although his autobiography mentions one nun who supplied her own. Collier, who teaches history and English, learned all that after a romance writer asked whether it would be historically accurate for her 17th-century heroine to slide a condom onto her lover's tumescent manhood, or whatever she called it. The subject caught her imagination as a lens through which to view human nature, politics, commerce, and power struggles between the sexes. So she gathered enough lore to write The Humble Little Condom: A History, to be released by Prometheus Books next month.

 The condom was officially invented and reinvented more times than the wheel, especially by sausage manufacturers who kept noticing what else you might put in that casing. Condoms may predate even the sausage, having evolved from various other types of penis coverings used as long ago as ancient Egypt. The concept may go back even further. A cave painting at Grotte des Combarelles in France that was determined to be at least 12,000 years old shows what appears to be a couple coupling, Collier says, "and it looked for all the world as if the man had covered himself with some kind of animal skin." But condoms took off big time in the late 16th century, when they were made from linen or animal stomachs or other innards. "They were very crude," Collier points out, fitting like a Baggie and secured with plain twine or colored ribbon. People of the powdered-wig era liked the protection their condoms offered from unwanted pregnancy as well as from syphilis and other infections. In the 1870s, however, morality czar Anthony Comstock launched a war on condoms in America. He and various New York businessmen pushed what was known as the Comstock Act through Congress in 1873. It outlawed pornography as well as the sale or purchase of condoms and other birth-control devices.Collier's research found that 3,873 people were arrested and more than 2,900 convicted for condom-related crimes, among them giving lectures that advocated birth control. "The States are still trying to recover," says Collier, who spent part of her childhood in England.

 

 

Harry Potter Trivia Book on the Block

By Bridget Kinsella -- Publishers Weekly, 7/25/2007 12:12:00 PM

Two weeks ago when a home-schooling mom of three sent a query about The Absolute Best Harry Potter Trivia Challenge manuscript she was working on to the Los Angeles-based agent Sharlene Martin, Martin knew she was interested and knew she wanted to send the proposal out this Monday, two days after HP7’s lay-down date.

With several major publishers already interested, Martin now plans a two-day auction, with round one starting today, July 25, and ending at 3pm on August 1, and round two opening on August 2 and ending at 5 p.m. ET that day. The auction rules are available on the agent’s website www.MartinLiteraryManagement.com. The auction is for North American rights.

Martin told PW that she was impressed with author Tammy Valdovino’s proposal as well as her backstory. “She used the Harry Potter books in her home school curriculum and when she went looking for a Harry Potter trivia book and couldn’t find one, she started writing one for fun,” said Martin. Valdovino was a physicist before she became a home-schooling mom. The manuscript will be done on Sept. 1.

The book contains over 2500 questions that cover all eight books and five movies, and ultimately ends with a way to determine if the reader is indeed simply a Muggle or HP’s biggest fan. . It will also have questions about Harry’s two “school books”, (Quidditch Through the Ages and Fantastic Beasts & Where to Find Them).

 



 

 

Becoming a 'Tabloid Prodigy'
May 25, 2007
By Kimberly Maul

Marlise Elizabeth Kast went from being a minister's daughter to a celebrity's worst nightmare: a tabloid journalist. Chasing Matt Lauer through Egypt, crashing William Shatner's wedding and posing as Leonardo DiCaprio's neighbor are just some of the things Kast did during her three year working for Globe magazine. As a tabloid reporter, she was always trying to find the scoop and the story on anyone and everyone famous in Hollywood. But now the tables have turned and Kast has bared all in her memoir, Tabloid Prodigy: Dishing the Dirt, Getting the Gossip, and Selling My Soul in the Cutthroat World of Hollywood Reporting.

"When I was working for the tabloids, I had no intention of eventually writing a book about my experience," Kast told The Book Standard. "But it was one of those things that after I left the tabloids, I'd be at a dinner party and somebody would say, 'My gosh, you've got the craziest stories, I can't believe you did that. You've got to write a book!'"

Using her personal journals, published articles and careful notes from her time at Globe, Kast did just that. Tabloid Prodigy was published earlier this month by Running Press. In promoting the book, Kast has appeared on Entertainment Tonight, The O'Reilly Factor and dozens of radio shows, defending her time at Globe. Kast's agent, Sharlene Martin of Martin Literary Management, is currently co-agenting the film rights with Joel Gotler of IPG.

Kast started working for Globe at age 22 and left three years later in 2001. Tabloid Prodigy includes the story of how she danced with Bobby Brown, hoping to get a picture of him trying to kiss her, and posing as a jogger to learn more about Sharon Stone's wedding. But even though Kast spills all about working for a tabloid, she said she hasn't had any problems from Globe employees or celebrities mentioned in the book.

"It's my memoir. It's my story," Kast explained. "The person who probably looks the worst in the book is myself." Her internal struggle—between her desire to succeed in tabloid journalism and her religions upbringing and conscience—is a major theme in the book.

"I'm just challenging everybody to read my book so they can discover the real Marlise," Kast said. "[The book is] raw and it's honest and I'm telling it in my voice, seen through my eyes. I think that people will realize that the reason why I did leave I because I have a conscience."


 

BY GEORGE RUSH AND JOANNA RUSH MOLLOY
DAILY NEWS GOSSIP COLUMNISTS

Thursday, May 10th 2007

Warren Zevon's second wife, Crystal, is out with her oral history of the rocker, "I'll Sleep When I'm Dead." While Crystal deals with his battle with cancer, Mitchell Fink's "The Last Days of Dead Celebrities" remains the definitive chronicle of the excitable boy's exit strategy (which included regular trysts with mistress Susan Jaffy). Fink's book, featuring 15 star departures, is just out in paperback


 



 



 


Investigative Biography of Richard Perle from Union Square Press
February 21, 2007
By Kimberly Maul

Union Square Press, the newest imprint of Sterling Publishing, has signed veteran news producer Alan Weisman to write a book on political advisor and lobbyist Richard Perle, to be published in November. Prince of Darkness-Richard Perle: The Kingdom, The Power and the End of Empire in America is not an authorized biography, but Perle did grant Weisman several one-on-one interviews.

"This will be an investigative biography of the highest quality, from a writer with superb media connections," said Philip Turner, the editorial director of Union Square Press who acquired the book. "By examining the career of Richard Perle in depth, it will give readers a profound understanding of how American foreign policy has been shaped over the past 30 years, and especially how we were led into war in Iraq."

Weisman previously worked with CBS News, 60 Minutes and Charlie Rose and wrote Lone Star: The Extraordinary Life and Times of Dan Rather in 2006. He is represented by Sharlene Martin of Martin Literary Management.


 


MLM client, Joan Baker, Secrets of Voice Over Success.


 

Size zero: The boys

Waif-like young men are starving themselves to get the work they crave

By Ian Griggs and Lauren Veevers

February 11, 2007


As they sashay along the catwalks for the beginning of London Fashion Week today, stick-thin models will be the centre of attention. Yet not all will be women: boys are now under pressure to achieve "size zero" figures, too.

As fashion experts yesterday added to the row over skinny models, male stars of the shows revealed they are coming under enormous pressure to slim down to dangerously low weights. They say designers no longer want a buffed, toned male body to show off their clothes. Instead, they want waifs who can rival women in slenderness and androgynous looks.

One model, Ron Saxen, has written a book about his ordeal. It details how the pressure to be slim led to a battle with anorexia which, he says, almost killed him as he desperately tried to keep himself in work.

"My routine would be to get up, have a cup of coffee, run five miles, have another cup of coffee, cycle 20 miles, have a break and then swim 20 lengths of the pool," said Mr. Saxen. "I put a lot of pressure on my heart. I had come down to 205lb, but I needed to get down to around 175lb to be a model. So I did it, and at 6ft 1in I was mostly skin and bones. But I got a contract."

Dior is one of the fashion houses leading the demand for stick-thin young men. Chris Ulyatt, 19, modeled for Dior last year. At 6ft 2in, he weighs only 10 stone.

"I was approached in the street by the head of Dior Homme," said Mr. Ulyatt. "He was on what's called a boy safari. All the lads on the catwalk were tall and skinny and androgynous-looking. It's what they go for."

Health experts are warning of more men developing eating disorders. Janet Treasure, director of the eating disorders unit and professor of psychiatry at Guy's, King's and St Thomas' medical school in London, said that images of male models had an effect on men that was comparable with the size-zero fad among women.

The London Development Agency, which sponsors London Fashion Week, is to look at the pressure put on models to be thin and will examine whether the promotion of size-zero models leads to eating disorders.

The Good Eater: the true story of one man's struggle with binge eating disorder by Ron Saxen is published next month.


 

Feb. 19, 2007 issue - Ron Saxen's problem with binge eating started when he was 11. He hid the disorder well enough-through exercise and yo-yo dieting-to sign a modeling contract at the age of 21, when he was 6 feet 1 and weighed 179 pounds. But the pressure to remain thin proved to be too much. He quit the catwalk and eventually ballooned to 295 pounds. "In the darkest days, I would get two Big Macs, a large order of fries and a chocolate shake, then pull into Taco Bell before finishing my McDonald's," says Saxen, author of "The Good Eater: The True Story of One Man's Struggle With Binge Eating Disorder" due out next month.

But Saxen, now 44 and recovering, is one of the lucky ones. This month Harvard researchers found that binge-eating disorder, or BED, is the most common eating disorder in the United States-more prevalent than anorexia and bulimia nervosa combined. Its definition: single bursts of uncontrolled eating that last less than two hours and occur at least twice a week. Because of the disorder's close link with obesity, "it's a major public-health burden," says the study's lead author, James Hudson. The study suggests more than 30 percent of sufferers are male-a higher percentage than in anorexia or bulimia. A guide to diagnosis and treatment:

Recognize the symptoms. "It's not unusual to see cases where patients say BED goes back to childhood-even as young as 8," says study coauthor Harrison Pope. He suggests looking for unexplained weight gain and any signs of "surreptitious eating." Evenings are when binge eaters most often lose control.

Find a good therapist. BED has no proven cause, but it's often linked with depression and anxiety. Therapy, particularly cognitive-behavioral therapy (nacbt.org), can help. Call the psychiatry department at the nearest medical school and ask for a referral. Or visit sites like edreferral.com, the Academy for Eating Disorders' aed web.org and the Alliance for Eating Disorders Awareness (eatingdisorderinfo.org)-but make sure to check therapists' credentials yourself.

Try support groups. They're not for everyone, but some binge eaters benefit from groups like Eating Disorders Anonymous (eatingdisordersanon ymous.org), Overeaters Anonymous (oa.org) or Weight Watchers (weightwatchers.com).

Consider medications. There are no FDA-approved treatments for binge-eating disorder. Still, your doctor may prescribe a Prozac-like antidepressant or an antiseizure drug that's sometimes prescribed "off label" because it curbs appetite.

Distract yourself. Bingers often talk about "going into a trance," says psychologist Joyce Nash, author of "Binge No More." So, before breaking open that bag of chips, stop, take a deep breath and wait 10 minutes. Taking a shower can also help break the spell.

Start exercising. Exercise is "non-negotiable," says Nash. Even if a binge eater stops gorging, he doesn't automatically lose weight. The change requires sufferers to turn to a healthy activity-like walking-to manage their emotions and escape unpleasant feelings. It's not easy to do, but examples like Saxen's show that recovery is within everyone's grasp.

URL: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/17081400/site/newsweek/


 

 

 

Tan and rested? Not Dan Rather. He's ruddy and revved up. "We're going full throttle," the ex-CBS News anchor told me yesterday about "Dan Rather Reports," his upcoming weekly show on Texas zillionaire Mark Cuban's HDNet cable network, which reaches just 4 million households. Rather's shooting for a late October or early November debut. "Cuban has given me absolute and complete editorial control," Rather said over lunch at Table XII. "Cuban told me, 'I want you to have whatever you need for a quality program,' and he's been as good as his word, and in many instances better than his word. Budgeting is one of the things I'm learning. I'm taking a crash course in the MBA school of hard knocks."

The 74-year-old Rather just flew back from Fort Stewart, Ga., where he was interviewing soldiers just returned from and headed for Iraq. "We don't hear enough from what Ernie Pyle called the dogfaces," Rather said, adding that he and his staff of 16, who yesterday settled into spacious new midtown offices, also have a couple investigative pieces in the works.

Chewing over gossip that his former "Memogate" producer, Mary Mapes, will be joining the show, "Not true," Rather said. "I don't have any idea where that came from. I like Mary, but she doesn't have anything to do with 'Dan Rather Reports.'" As for Katie Couric - who's three-and-a-half weeks into the job Rather held for 24 years - he has watched a little, and he predicted: "I figure things will settle in by the February [ratings] sweeps." And the dustup between Bill Clinton and Fox News' Chris Wallace - "What's all the fuss about?" Rather said. "These kind of interviews happen between reporters and politicians all the time. The difference is, it's usually not on camera." He added: "I didn't think Chris Wallace had a smirk - did you?"

Meanwhile, he hates looking in the rear-view mirror - and said he won't read "Lone Star," ex-CBS producer Alan Weisman's recent dishy Rather biography. "Two people who did read it told me not to," he said. "Nobody's skin is so thick where the point of the spear doesn't nick you."

 


 

 

 

How heroes reclaimed the sky

Let's not forget the people of the airline industry on Sept. 11.
"Reclaiming the Sky," by Tom Murphy, is more than a book about these unsung heroes.
"I think it's a story for anybody who wants to learn how to live in this post-9/11 era and not be fearful," says Murphy. "I think the terrorists came to kill as many as they could that day, but also to destroy us indirectly by getting us to turn inward. Away from each other. To retreat into ourselves and into our fears."

But he says the stories in his book illustrate that the people who are doing best since 9/11 are those who refuted the terrorists by coming out of themselves for others. "That's how we reclaimed the sky after 9/11," Murphy says. "That's how we all can reclaim our happiness."

Murphy, a former editor of The Bayside Times, an excellent Queens weekly, says every penny of the profits from his book, which hits bookstore shelves this week, will go to charities directly related to 9/11, or to the airline industry, in which he's worked for 20 years. Murphy has also launched a Web site, www.reclaimingthesky.com, where people go to vent and swap stories.

On the morning of Sept. 11, Murphy was supposed to be at a meeting at the Port Authority aviation unit headquarters on the 65th floor of the north tower of the World Trade Center.

The meeting was canceled.

So Murphy, who'd run a customer service training program at Newark Liberty International Airport for 10 years, caught a plane out of town, and he remembers seeing the sun gleaming off the twin towers.

Minutes later, those towers would be attacked by two jumbo jets hijacked by fanatical Wahhabi terrorists. In the first row of United 175 sat Marianne MacFarlane and Jesus Sanchez, United Airlines employees Murphy had trained. That plane exploded into the south tower. American Flight 11 made its fatal impact into the north tower, where Murphy kept a desk.

In the smoldering days following Sept. 11, Murphy found himself haunted by a lingering fog of dread. He watched others in the industry go back to work, launching the wounded nation back into the scary sky. He wanted to know how these unsung heroes managed to find the fortitude.

His questions and their answers and personal stories became "Reclaiming the Sky," the story about these gutsy people who helped us reclaim our country.

"I was stuck," Murphy says. "Mark Hussey, who runs the station in Boston, told me that every day for the workers there was a tug between remembering and moving on. I think the key, though, is how to move forward instead of on. Moving forward is when we embrace the loss. And so I set out to learn how to do that."

Murphy talked to flight attendants, customer service reps, pilots and others in the aviation industry who literally rose to the crucial task after that fateful day and every day since.

"When Tom Murphy called me, I told him the most crucial thing we all had to do was talk about what was troubling us," says Queens-raised Mary McKenna, an American Airlines flight attendant with 30 years of flying, who also happens to be a licensed psychotherapist. "I'd had a hard time because I knew people who died on 9/11 and in Flight 587 that went down a month later in Rockaway.

"I told Tom the main thing was not to bury the feelings. That you needed to embrace the feelings and share them with others. A lot of us in this industry were like the walking wounded after 9/11. The ones who dealt with their feelings openly and outwardly did much better than those who buried them."

It's why McKenna liked the A&E TV movie "Flight 93" better than "United 93," the feature film version. "The TV movie dealt more with emotions, the phone calls between families, the essence of what the loss meant on a human level," says McKenna, who recently took a 35% pay cut to help save American Airlines.

"That's what Tom Murphy has done so wonderfully in 'Reclaiming the Sky.' This is the story of the human beings in the airline industry since that terrible day."

In a grim post-9/11 time of layoffs, cutbacks, bankruptcies and terror plots like the recent one in London, the men and women of the airline industry manage to keep our planes in the sky, which keeps our economy aloft and our 21st century society connected.

"I learned that whether it was by creating a garden, a scholarship fund or a toy drive in honor of the lost, you healed by doing something that took you out of self," says Murphy. "I had no idea when I started that this book and this Web site would be how I learned to cope, how I would reclaim the sky."

 



 



 

Lone Star: The Extraordinary Life and Times of Dan Rather

 




 





 

 

June 18, 2006
STEVE LOPEZ:
POINTS WEST

I'm not going to mess up Father's Day for Lou Dantzler by talking about the odds
against his kids or the war outside his door at 51st and Vermont in South Los Angeles.

He knows what's out there as well as anyone. But why talk about it, Dantzler says,
instead of doing something about it?

Way back in the 1960s, he did.

The son of a South Carolina sharecropper, Dantzler settled in Los Angeles after a tour
in the Air Force, married a local beauty named Ruby, and raised 30,000 children. That's
how many youngsters have passed through the Challengers Boys & Girls Club, an
oasis, an inspiration, a rebuke to gangs and dropout rates and all manner of statistical
negativity.

It all began when Dantzler got home from a gardening job in 1968 — three years after
the Watts riots — to find an 11-year-old neighbor burglarizing his house near 6th and
Slauson avenues. The kid's dad wasn't around much, and Dantzler could identify with
that. His sharecropper dad died when Lou was 7.

Instead of calling the police, Dantzler gave the boy a talking to, took him home to his
mother, then invited the kid to go along on a trip to the park with his own sons the next
weekend.

The 11-year-old took a liking to Dantzler and told his friends all about him, and they took
a liking too, and soon Dantzler's pickup was overloaded for his Saturday trips to the
park. In 1968, the owners of Vons were so impressed with Dantzler's work with kids that
they deeded him an abandoned supermarket at 51st and Vermont for a grand total of
$1.

A construction crew told Dantzler it would cost $5,000 to remove the damaged roof, and
he thanked them for dropping by. Then he rounded up some volunteers who did it for
free and sold the lumber for $3,000. Get the picture as to how Lou Dantzler operates
and why he believes anything's possible?

"Hi, Lou," sang a group of kids who were making chocolate chips for their fathers and/or
father figures in the home ec class at Challengers last week. They call him Lou, Mr. Lou
and Papa Lou, whether they catch him in a hallway or see him duck into home ec, the
computer lab or the library, where a sign says "Absolutely No Talking" until homework is
finished.

That's right. There are lots of rules. As Dantzler sees it, half the problem — aside from
the economic ruin spun by the death of manufacturing and aerospace jobs — is the
anything-goes culture in which kids, rather than parents, are in charge.

You want to be a Challenger? Bring your parent to an orientation meeting. And the
parent doesn't get a free ride. A minimum of five hours a month volunteer work is
required, and parents also have to study the handbook of rules and regulations so they
know what's expected of their children.

Tuck in your shirt. Mind your mouth. Pull up your pants. None of that baggy, saggy stuff
is tolerated at Dantzler's club, and don't dare drop a speck of anything on floors that are
buffed and waxed to a blinding shine, not just because Dantzler is a neat nut, but
because he thinks of his roughly 2,200 current charges — who range from 6 to 17 — as
future royalty.

"As much discipline as there was in our house, there was twice as much love," Dantzler
says in his new book, "A Place to Go, a Place to Grow," written with Challengers
volunteer Kathleen Felesina.

As for the love, here's what 8-year-old Aaliyah Davis has to say about the 70-year-old
Dantzler:

"I call him Mr. Lou," said Aaliyah, who speaks as if she'll be heading straight to college
after the fifth grade. "He creates a safe environment for us and he's extremely nice,
which I like, and I wish he would stay with us forever. He's loving, understanding and
caring, like a dad or a grandfather, and the other person I admire is my teacher at
school who was a scientist at USC."

But not everyone walks in that door prepped for Stanford. The majority have no father in
the picture, Dantzler said, and quite a few can relate to a Challengers custodian named
Wendell "Rock" Williams, a former Hoover Crip. Williams was shot five times, stabbed
several more, and beaned in the head with the stone that gave him his nickname. And
he's got the dings and scars to prove it.

"I loved coming here as a kid because Lou didn't stand for none of that gang stuff,"
Williams said. "It was always safe in here."

But Williams forgot most of what he learned and kept up the knucklehead activity after
graduating from Challengers. Thirteen years ago, Dantzler offered him one more
chance to go straight. He gave him a job. That's the best way to beat the gangs,
Dantzler believes. You keep stealing their recruits.

"He saved me twice," Williams said.

Though Dantzler now has legions of fans, at least two young men grew up with
somewhat mixed feelings about his long hours over the years — his two sons, Mark and
Corey. When Mark was 12 and Corey was 6, the Dantzlers moved from South L.A. to
Altadena, and the brothers remember Dad leaving the house at 5:30 every morning and
getting back after 7 p.m. Their mother worked, too, as an administrative assistant for a
phone company.

"I was a latchkey kid," said Corey, 37.

"I've been sharing my dad all my life," said Mark, 43, who remembers coming to
Challengers on occasion as a boy and seeing "all these other kids hugging him and
hanging all over him."

But when Mark and Corey got older and realized how many lives their father had
touched, they let go of their jealousy and became all the prouder of him. So proud that
both now work for their dad.

"All of the things he instilled in us, we now pass on to the kids," said Mark, who was
mediating a minor playground dispute at Challengers while also keeping an eye on
roughly 75 other kids. Mark said he had dug up an old picture of himself, Corey and
their father, and was having it framed as a Father's Day gift.

As he told me this, his father was horsing and laughing with half a dozen kids in line for
snacks, and a young man named Shawn Honore, 14, who has never seen his father,
was catching a ride home to his auntie's house.

"The most influential person in my life is NOT someone in a magazine, on a television
show, in movies, an extraordinary professional athlete or an entertainer," Shawn wrote
recently in an essay contest at Challengers.

In his winning entry, Shawn said he was one of those kids who "could've been kicked
aside." He was in special ed classes and headed for trouble until the day his aunt drove
him to 51st and Vermont, where he was told to pull up his pants.

"I said, 'What?!' "

Shawn became a DJ in the Challengers' radio studio, learned about video production
and visited museums on field trips. Back at school, he went from special ed classes to
the dean's list.

"Lou is part father figure, part grandpa and part favorite uncle," he wrote. "It is because
of Lou and what I see him doing every day that I believe you can make the world a
better place … even if you have to start one community/one child at a time. Lou
Dantzler is the most important person in my life."

Dantzler's new book is available in bookstores or at Amazon.com. A portion of the
proceeds will benefit the Challengers Boys & Girls Club.

Reach the columnist at steve.lopez@latimes.com

 



 

 

June 5, 2006 -- DAN Rather made some surprising enemies during his many years as an award-winning reporter and anchorman for CBS News - one of them being his "60 Minutes" colleague Morley Safer, who Rather once suggested should have been shot dead.

In "Lone Star," an unauthorized bio of Rather out this September, Alan Weisman writes that Safer "has not been a friend of Rather's for years, since their days in Vietnam." The final straw came when Rather took over for Safer not long after Safer's jolting report about the burning of a Vietnam village by a platoon of U.S. Marines.

"When Rather replaced me . . . he went to a group of Marines and said, 'If I were you guys, I would have shot him.' Or words to that effect," Safer tells Weisman. "And that my report should never have gone on the air." Asked whether Rather had ripped his fellow newsman to cozy up with the troops, Safer bristles, "Who the hell knows why? Have I ever confronted him about it? No. Now we just have a polite relationship."

Rather is also raked over the coals by co-workers for the dubious handling of his report on President George W. Bush's alleged lousy Air National Guard service record. Rather continued to defend the story even after it was found to be based on forged documents. "It's the same thing he did over and over again. You know, 'Don't tell me I'm wrong,' " former CBS News president Ed Joyce told Weisman, who himself was a CBS newswriter and producer.

"In my opinion he was guilty of journalistic malpractice," Joyce says. "To go out on a limb with that sort of thin sourcing and then, when you get caught, go on the 'CBS Evening News' defending it in such an arrogant fashion was wrong."

Producer Richard Cohen said, "This is the story of Macbeth. It's about someone who was so seized by his own ambition that he forgot everything else. All he wanted to do was anchor the 'Evening News' - in fact, he wanted to be the 'Evening News.' "

Rather, who quit last year, has cooperated with other books but snubbed Weisman.

"Though the author has known and worked with Dan Rather for decades, in the end Rather decided not to cooperate with the book," Michael Onorato, a director at Wiley Books, told Page Six's Bill Hoffmann.
Rather's flack, Kim Akhtar, said,: "Mr. Rather has not seen a copy of the book yet. He can't comment on it."






 

 



 
Book Cops, Book Cops -Whatcha Gonna Do


 

 

Book Cops, Book Cops -Whatcha Gonna Do? February 02, 2006
By Kimberly Maul


Newly contracted memoirist Ron Saxen may just be the harbinger of things to come. Over the past few weeks, with publishers likely more gun-shy about signing memoirs, Saxen managed to sell his, The Good Eater, and sold it to-of all places-New Harbinger. What may have eased anxiety was that Saxen has given his agent, Sharlene Martin, and potential publishers, a chapter-by-chapter breakdown of his book with the manuscript, including people to contact and photos to verify facts, as well as the real information for people whose names he changed. "Given the [James] Frey controversy, he provided me with this document," Martin says. "Perhaps this could be a format for future authors to do to satisfy agents and publishers alike."

Indeed, Frey's fabrications have initiated a heated debate about the way publishers vet and fact-check nonfiction books. During the Oprah Winfrey Show on Jan. 23, on which Winfrey confronted and verbally lacerated James Frey and his agent, Nan A. Talese, Winfrey said "this needs to change." Richard Cohen, of the Washington Post, and a guest on the same show, agreed, and pointed out that a fact-checker could have found in "half an hour that some of this book didn't work, because the book doesn't pass the smell test."

Bill Bastone, editor of The Smoking Gun, the investigative website that unearthed the fabrications and embellishments that Frey used to write A Million Little Pieces, which was published as a memoir, says, "We've got a lot of letters from people who are working on memoirs or nonfiction books, and they want to know whether we could serve as a pre-publication review of their work so they can say, 'This book has been reviewed by The Smoking Gun and found to be 99.8 percent accurate.' "

Yet Bastone has repeatedly said that he does not want his site, which is owned by Court TV, to become the "literary police," sniffing out falsehoods in nonfiction books and prosecuting authors. There are things publishers can do to verify questionable facts in a story, he says: "You can pick up the phone and call and do exactly what we did. Whether that's a fact-checker or a lawyer or an editor, five or ten questions and an hour on the telephone could have nailed you down on the truthfulness of James Frey."

The Wall Street Journal recently addressed the notion of fact-checkers in the book-publishing business and in a story on Jan. 30, noted, "Editors and publishers say the profit-margins in publishing don't allow for hiring fact-checkers. Instead they rely on authors to be honest, and on their legal staffs to avoid libels suits."

While Stuart Applebaum, a spokesman for Random House, declined to comment to The Book Standard, he spoke with the WSJ, commenting that with hundreds to thousands of nonfiction books published each year from a publishing house, the challenge of fact-checking every book is "very daunting." HarperCollins and Simon & Schuster also declined to comment.

Martin, agent for nonfiction books including You'll Never Nanny in This Town Again, by Suzanne Hanson, and Take Charge, by Apprentice-winner Kelly Perdew, told The Book Standard that many of her clients spend hours or even days discussing the truthfulness of their work with publishers' in-house attorneys. And, she says, the tide has turned.

"Up until now," she says, "their main goal was to check any fact that might result in liability claims against them. And for a while, they may attempt to sift with a finer screen, but then there will, of course, be an attendant increase in production costs."

The Smoking Gun's Bastone acknowledges publisher's financial pressures, but says that discussing the truthfulness of facts only when they may prove to be a liability is a poor approach. That, she says, "leaves a lot to be desired on the accuracy front."

 




 

Nanny's dirty laundry Suzanne Hansen saw an unflattering side of the Ovitzes. Her response is an unabashed tell-all.

 



January 13, 2006

PORTLAND, Ore. — Suzanne Hansen was a very green, very timid, extremely judgmental 18-year-old graduate of a four-month nanny training program in Oregon when she moved to Los Angeles to find work. She ended up in the home of a man she'd never heard of — Michael Ovitz — head of Creative Artists Agency and then at the height of his Hollywood power.

The year she spent minding the great man's three children in Brentwood was not a happy one for Hansen. She says she was unprepared for the formality — even coldness — of the home and was frequently wounded by Judy Ovitz, the beautiful, joyless villainess of the book Hansen has written about her brief but memorable stint as a Hollywood nanny. Nanny horror stories about the upper classes are endlessly fascinating — in 2002, "The Nanny Diaries," a novel about a Manhattan nanny (soon to be a major motion picture starring Scarlett Johansson) hit bestseller lists, and last year's "White House Nannies," by a nanny agency owner, was a nonfiction account of childcare among the nation's most powerful parents.

"You'll Never Nanny in This Town Again," a workmanlike account that tries hard to be amusing but too often seems strained, depicts a small-town girl from Cottage Grove, Ore., who was shocked at her rich employers' conflicted relationship with money, their rude treatment of household help and the small slights that accrued when an inexperienced kid from the sticks was always crossing "some invisible line," as she puts it, that only her employers could locate.

In nanny school, Hansen's teachers drilled her on the importance of securing a contract, but she never asked for one, so her long days and sleep-deprived nights tending the baby took their toll on her energy and attitude. (For their part, the Ovitzes, who did not respond to a message left with an assistant, didn't ask for a confidentiality agreement.)

Reviews have been unkind, rapping Hansen for dishing old dirt, for exploiting employers who were, she admits in print, often quite kind and generous, and, perhaps the worst sin of all — for stirring in readers an unfamiliar and uncomfortable feeling — sympathy for Michael Ovitz.

"It's not that they're bad and I'm good, because I did a lot of stupid stuff and made a lot of mistakes," said Hansen, who at 37 exuded an air of bubbly naivete during an interview at her airy home in the Portland suburb of West Linn. "But it's my story to tell and I think it's important. How else can we make a change in how nannies are treated? This is how we make a change, when people tell the honest truth. And I am not divulging everything, believe me."

The book, which takes place from 1987 to 1993, including time she worked for other families, is filled with juicy little tidbits that will be enjoyed by anyone who loves to read about the bad behavior, however minor, of the rich and famous: The Ovitzes often flew on private jets or in first class to their vacations, but Hansen was upbraided for forgetting to pack a snowsuit for the baby for an Aspen holiday — requiring an unexpected $40 outlay. When the Ovitz's dear friends Michael and Jane Eisner sent over stuffed Minnie and Mickey Mouse dolls as an anniversary gift, Hansen wrote, Judy was disgusted by their cheapness. When the Ovitzes, who are major art collectors, called home from a Mediterranean vacation without their kids, Michael's first question was, "Is my art OK?" They hung up on Hansen before she could bring the children to the phone because, as Hansen quoted Judy, "This call is costing us a fortune!"

Hansen was continually stunned by a lack of respect toward the hired help, who also included a live-in cook, a live-in housekeeper, two weekday housekeepers, a gardener and car detailer, although she wrote about the highly valued cook's $10,000 Christmas bonus. (Judy, she said during the interview, did not like the cook and resented her generous $60,000 salary, set by Michael. Hansen received a bonus of $2,500, two months' salary.) On nights when Judy Ovitz and Hansen ate dinner with the children, the children would sometimes ring a buzzer for the kitchen staff "just to be mean ... And it was just uncomfortable because they were being treated like servants," Hansen said. "Well, they are servants. But you could still be respectful."

But there were many large and small acts of kindness, as well. Michael Ovitz used his muscle to get her a good price on a car and gave her courtside Lakers seats; Judy Ovitz paid for her acrylic nails (although she would pay for fills, not for broken tips in subsequent appointments).

Eventually, Hansen tired of the long days and what she felt was the unforgiving household vibe, and quiveringly announced to Michael Ovitz, as intimidating at home, apparently as he was at work, that she wanted to quit.

"And he said, 'Do you ever plan to work in this town again as a nanny?' And I said, 'Well, yeah, I think so.' And he said, 'We'll see about that.' " As she recounted the exchange, she tensed a little, and admitted she still cares what the Ovitzes think of her and has worried about what she would do if she ever bumped into them when she visits Los Angeles.

Though she claims Michael Ovitz tried to torpedo her next jobs, she did find work again — with Debra Winger (who'd recently defected from CAA) and the Danny DeVito-Rhea Perlman household. Both families were warm and kid-centered, and Hansen thrived.

Eventually, she returned to Oregon, became a labor and delivery nurse, got married, had two kids and quit her job. She found herself home with a newborn and a 2-year-old struggling to keep the household together, occasionally seeing gorgeous, trim celebrity moms on TV talk shows proclaiming their excessive self-reliance in the parenting department. That ticked her off.

"I'd see these celebrity moms saying they do it all, drive carpool and make dinner every night," said Hansen, sitting at the granite breakfast bar in her spacious kitchen. "And Oprah always says, 'Do you have any help?' A lot of them will say they don't have live-in help. Well, what they don't tell you is that the nanny comes at 6 a.m. and leaves at 9 at night! I think it would be so great if those people would just say, 'We have the best nanny in the whole world .... We're so thankful, we're so grateful.' "

What's a former celebrity nanny to do?

Hansen knew about "The Nanny Diaries" success and thought that by telling her story she could strike a blow for nannies. She said she did not write the book thinking she would cash in, or at least not very much. "The statistical chances of making money on our book are about a million to one, as far as I can tell," she said.

But there was always hope ... and the possibility of a TV or movie deal. She and her sister, Cindy Tobiasson, who had worked in CAA's accounting department while her sister worked for the Ovitzes, would self-publish the book. About $100,000 and 4,500 sold books later, they reconsidered. Tobiasson was mortgaged so heavily that she sold her house. Hansen's credit lines were stretched to the breaking point. Their husbands, encouraging at first, urged them to give up their nanny book dream.

In a last-ditch effort, they paid $120 to a service that basically spammed every publishing house in the country trying to drum up interest. To their surprise, they were deluged with responses from publishing houses large and small. Using a directory of literary agents, they found Sharlene Martin, an Encino-based agent who had founded a nanny agency in Connecticut in the 1980s and who co-founded the International Nanny Assn. "I wasn't going to let this one get out of my hands, I so totally related," Martin said. "When people say, 'Who cares about Michael Ovitz, he's so passe, the truth is that he is emblematic of Hollywood. The players change, but the story doesn't."

Last week, in its second incarnation, "You'll Never Nanny" hit bookstore shelves again. The sisters will pay their agent and a personal publicist out of their $100,000 advance, but they are well on their way to recouping their investment. Today, Hansen kicks off a publicity tour with an appearance on "Today."

While she is on the road, Hansen has left a detailed plan for the care and feeding of her own children, 7-year-old Jadyn and 5-year-old Parker, who will be shuttled to school, play dates and home by relatives, friends and their father, an aspiring longshoreman who owns a BMW repair shop. The family — need it be said — does not have a nanny.


 




 
Tiny Dancer by Anthony Flacco
 



 
Ex-nanny gives Ovitz a spanking
 

 

Former Creative Artists Agency chief Michael Ovitz allegedly threatened to have his nanny blacklisted in Hollywood after she got fed up with his ill-treatment.

Just as Ovitz once vowed to crush renegade screenwriter Joe Eszterhas, child-care provider Suzanne Hansen says the formerly fearsome CAA boss hinted darkly that he'd see to it that she'd never work in "this town again."

Hansen has turned his supposed warning into a book, "You'll Never Nanny in This Town Again," in which she tells how she spent six months looking after Ovitz's children day and night for less than $800 a month.

Hansen contends:

" Wife Judy Ovitz scolded her for buying a new iron when the old one had a frayed and dangerous cord.

" The Ovitzes offered to pay for Hansen to have a manicure once every two weeks, but made her pay the $2 if she broke a nail and it had to be replaced.
" When Ovitz checked in from a Mediterranean vacation, his first question was, "Is my art okay?"
" When the Ovitzes received a pair of stuffed Mickey and Minnie Mouse dolls from Michael Eisner, Ovitz's future boss at Disney, for their anniversary, Judy griped, "That's it. The Eisners have more money than God, and what do they get us for our anniversary. Two stuffed rodents. I'll bet they didn't even pay for them."

Our call to Ovitz's office wasn't immediately returned.
Hansen later found a pleasant employer in Debra Winger, who'd recently fired Ovitz as her agent. "I couldn't continue to work with him," Hansen says Winger told her. "It was as if I knew my boss was dumping toxic waste into a playground. I couldn't sit silently and do nothing."


 
Up for Grabs: The Tale of a 'Tabloid Prodigy'—Both Print & Film Rights for Sale
 

 



Up for Grabs: The Tale of a 'Tabloid Prodigy'—Both Print & Film Rights for Sale


November 07, 2005
By Kimberly Maul

Using disguises and surp